Shared Users unable to access chime pro settings

As I'm reading through this forum I'm seeing more and more people not able to have at LEAST two owners or at a minimum two users with the ability to change the away mode, access the addon devices they bought, as we have. My wife and I share everything equally, and for her not to have the same access as myself that is absolutely ridiculous. I know we are living in a society that looks at traditional marriage with a scornful eye, and companies tend to pander to the majority, so if I've chosen the wrong product, I'm well within my ability to return the ring pro 3, the chime pro, echo screen and exterior lighting. Is this the final verdict? We are limited to simply shared Users with a minimalist approach to usability and device management?