Keeping floodlight camera lights off

I see ways to turn off spotlight light motions off but I want my wired spotlight lights to stay off. When I’m having a fire outside every little motion turns the lights on. I don’t want to set a schedule just for the time I’ll be out there. I just want a some “off and stay off” slider. Why is that so difficult?! Please someone give me a solution that isn’t “tricking” the system.