Intermittant notifications

I have a Motorola Moto G Power 2022 and so does my wife. Both phones are up to date with Android 12. I receive notifications just fine when I am away from home, but once I come home I stop receiving notifications of camera activity and arm/disarm notices. Sometimes when I am at home, most of the day I receive the notifications and then later at night it stops. My wife consistently gets every notification. I set up both phones and they are exactly the same. If I reboot my phone, it works fine for a while. If I turn off Wi-Fi I will instantly receive the last notification. I have done the following. Insured there is no snooze or night mode engaged Checked all of the app alert settings, cleared the data and cache uninstalled and reinstalled the app several times If it was a Wi-Fi issue neither of us would receive the notification. Desperately looking for a solution.