Ring alarm with eero extender and Starlink

I recently installed Starlink gen 3. I can bypass the Starlink router and plug into the Ethernet port of the ring alarm base station, and the eero WiFi extender. This works ok, but I’ve found significant degradation of the internet speed…upload speed should be between 20-30 MBs, but it’s actually closer to 5-10 MBS. Does anyone know how to use the Starlink router to provide the base speed that I desire for my internet but still use the eero extender so my WiFi can reach the whole house?