How can I tell if my cam is connected to an app

My spouse has the primary app for our ring cameras and shares them with me on my login. Recently the cameras all disappeared from my app and he’s telling me he’s having issues too. Problem is he’s out of town and I don’t trust him. How can I tell if the Ring cams are still recording/he’s viewing them? The infrared lights come on when I’m outside at night, and they are all still using the wifi according to my Wi-Fi app.