Hi everyone,
i followed the solutionon the other thread last nght and it seem solved the problem on last 12 hours
https://community.ring.com/t5/Video-Doorbells/Ring-3-doorbell-2-way-audio-issues/m-p/57438#M18927
durig setup the doorbell as new device, it has firmware update and it took about 10 mins to finish the update
will keep monitor and hope everyone get this problem fix